Disconnected Kids has polarized readers, with many parents praising its life-changing potential and others criticizing its scientific basis. Supporters claim significant improvements in their children's behavior and academic performance, while skeptics question the author's credentials and lack of peer-reviewed research. The book's approach to treating various neurological disorders through a unified brain-balancing program has sparked both hope and controversy in the special needs community.
Functional Disconnection Syndrome: The Root of Childhood Neurological Disorders
The Brain's Timing Mechanism: Key to Normal Development
Sensory-Motor Exercises: Reconnecting the Brain
Neuroacademic Assessments: Identifying and Addressing Learning Gaps
Nutrition and Supplement Plan: Fueling Brain Balance
Behavior Modification: Tailoring Approaches to Brain Imbalances
The Power of Neuroplasticity: Hope for Permanent Correction
There is no other program like it in existence anywhere in the world.
Understanding FDS. Functional Disconnection Syndrome (FDS) is the underlying cause of various childhood neurological disorders, including ADHD, autism, and dyslexia. It occurs when the two hemispheres of the brain are not electrically balanced or synchronized, leading to communication problems between them. This imbalance manifests in different symptoms depending on which side of the brain is affected:
Right brain deficiency: Often associated with ADHD, autism, and social difficulties
Left brain deficiency: Typically linked to learning disabilities and dyslexia
Rising prevalence. The incidence of these disorders has increased dramatically in recent years:
Autism: Now affects 1 in 68 children, up from 1 in 150 in 2007
ADHD: 10 times more common today than a generation ago
Learning disabilities: Affect 15-20% of the school population
The brain is the only organ not fully formed at birth.
Brain development stages. The brain develops in a specific sequence, with growth alternating between the right and left hemispheres:
Prenatal to age 2: Right brain focus
Around age 3: Left brain emphasis
Ongoing: Alternating focus between hemispheres
Importance of milestones. Developmental milestones are crucial indicators of proper brain growth. Skipping or delaying milestones can signal potential problems:
Crawling before walking is essential for proper nervous system development
Primitive reflexes should be present at birth and inhibited by 4-6 months
Postural reflexes emerge as primitive reflexes fade
Early identification of delays allows for timely intervention, potentially preventing or mitigating future challenges.
Stimulation without fuel, or fuel without stimulation, does not work.
Targeted exercises. The Brain Balance Program uses hemisphere-specific exercises to stimulate the weaker side of the brain without affecting the stronger side. These exercises fall into three main categories:
Sensory exercises: Vision, hearing, smell, taste, touch
Motor exercises: Balance, coordination, strength
Academic exercises: Reading, math, comprehension
Exercise principles:
Frequency is more important than intensity
Movements should be slow and purposeful
Combine physical activity with mental exercises when possible
Perform exercises 3-4 times per week, ideally after school and before dinner
As the brain becomes more balanced, behaviors and academic performance naturally improve.
The unevenness of skills that is the hallmark of a child with Functional Disconnection Syndrome is most obvious when it comes to learning, homework, and grades.
Comprehensive evaluation. Neuroacademic assessments help identify specific areas of weakness in a child's learning abilities. These assessments cover various subjects and skills, including:
Word reading and comprehension
Math operations and reasoning
Written expression
Listening comprehension
Oral expression
Tailored interventions. Once weaknesses are identified, targeted exercises and strategies can be implemented to address them:
Left brain skills: Phonics, word recognition, basic math operations
Right brain skills: Reading comprehension, math reasoning, creative writing
By focusing on the specific areas of deficit, children can make significant academic gains, often advancing multiple grade levels in a short period.
Poor nutrition is a big threat to the development of a healthy brain because children do not eat properly.
Dietary challenges. Children with FDS often have:
Compromised digestive systems
Reduced ability to absorb nutrients
Food sensitivities, particularly to gluten and casein
Elimination diet. To identify food sensitivities:
Keep a food diary for 7-10 days
Eliminate common trigger foods for 4 weeks
Reintroduce foods one at a time, observing reactions
Supplement program. Key nutrients for brain health include:
Vitamins: A, B-complex, C, D, E
Minerals: Calcium, magnesium, zinc, selenium
Fatty acids: Omega-3, omega-6, omega-9
Proper nutrition and supplementation support brain development and enhance the effectiveness of other Brain Balance interventions.
Behavior and emotions are bound together like cement.
Understanding brain-behavior connections. Different hemispheric imbalances require different behavioral approaches:
Left brain deficiency:
Tend to be shy, insecure, and fearful
Respond best to positive reinforcement
Use "if you do, you'll get" approach
Right brain deficiency:
Often hyperactive, oppositional, and impulsive
Respond better to negative reinforcement
Use "if you don't do, you won't get" approach
Key strategies:
Be consistent in applying consequences
Catch children being good and reinforce positive behaviors
Provide structure and clear boundaries
Use immediate reinforcement for right brain deficient children
Remember that as brain balance improves, behavioral issues will naturally decrease.
We have seen through brain imaging scans that, when given the proper stimulation, the weak side of the brain will actually get larger and faster.
Brain plasticity basics. Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to change and adapt in response to stimulation and experiences. This means that:
Brain imbalances are not permanent
Targeted interventions can create new neural connections
Improvements can be long-lasting with proper stimulation
Success stories. Many children who have gone through the Brain Balance Program have experienced significant improvements:
Advancement of 3-11 grade levels in academic subjects
Resolution of behavioral issues
Elimination of original diagnoses (e.g., ADHD, autism)
Long-term outlook. With continued support and maintenance:
Children can maintain their gains
Some may no longer require special education services
Improved quality of life for both children and families
The Brain Balance approach offers hope for children with FDS, demonstrating that these conditions are not lifelong sentences but opportunities for growth and transformation.